Planning a Lavender Wedding Theme

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Looking for some color inspo for your big day? 

We totally understand if your search for wedding inspiration has your mind racing (totally normal!) 

One day you’re thinking pink for a classic, romantic look. The next day you’re thinking dusty or sky blue to create a serene vibe. The day after that you’re teetering on the idea of a taupe and grey color palette that aligns with your chic, modern, minimalist aesthetic.  

Well today we’re not talking about any of those options. But we are talking about a color that is incredibly versatile, super flattering on every skin tone, and gorgeous for any time of year:

Lavender.

Lavender is soft, it’s romantic, and because it’s so easy to coordinate with other hues, we might even say it’s perfect. 

If you’re considering having a lavender color scheme on your big day, there are endless ways to pull it off.

From dresses to flowers to table decor, here are some lavender wedding ideas to help you plan a gorgeous, memorable day!

Lavender Bridesmaid Dresses

Photo: Bella Bridesmaids Atlanta / Kelly Berry

Pale purple hues flatter every skin tone, and since lavender bridesmaid dresses come in so many silhouettes, you’re sure to find styles you absolutely love. 

Many designers offer various shades of purple in their collections, including lavender, lilac, dusty hues, and deeper purple tones. And you don’t have to settle on one shade either — you can have a lot of fun creating a mixed-and-matched wedding party by dressing your girls in different colors and different silhouettes.

If you’re considering mixing and matching, there are some great color combos that incorporate lavender (more on that below).

As for your groomsmen attire, you’ll have endless color options to pair with lavender gowns. Lavender dresses pair just as well with black tuxedos as they do with suits in shades of grey, blue, brown, and tan.

Once you order your bridesmaid dresses and have your exact shade of purple in mind, it’s time to have fun choosing other lavender wedding decor, such as table runners, chair decorations, and flowers for your bouquets! 

Lavender Flowers

Photo: Trille

Lavender isn’t just a color — it’s actually a flower, as is lilac. So if you choose lavender or lilac as your wedding color, be sure to include those flowers in your bridal bouquet!

You can create a stunning wedding bouquet with a combo of lavender, lilac, purple orchids, purple peonies, and fresh greenery.

No matter what color dresses you choose for your bridesmaids, lavender bouquets always look fresh and lush. You can also add lavender blooms to boutonnieres for your groomsmen and centerpieces for your wedding tables!

Lavender Wedding Invitations

Photo: Heather Waraksa

When you order your wedding invitations and other stationery (such as save-the-dates, programs, and thank-you cards), consider including some lavender accents to add a fresh, natural touch. This can be in the form of colorful purple text or actual flower embellishments.

Lavender Favors

Photo: Sabine Scherer

Once you check the big items off your wedding planning to-do list, like choosing the venue, the dresses, and the caterer, it’s time to have fun planning the little details. That includes the wedding favors you plan to give your friends and family.

Lavender is more than just a popular color and flower. It’s also a scent, so we love the idea of gifting lavender candles as wedding favors.

And the options don’t end there. 

From mini succulents tied with lavender ribbons to handcrafted lavender soaps to homemade mini cupcakes with lavender icing, there are lots of other ways to incorporate pretty purple accents into your favors and wedding décor. 

Having a signature cocktail at your wedding reception? 

Garnish each drink with a lavender sprig for added style and a nice aroma. 

Having your wedding reception outdoors where it might be chilly? 

You might want to give your guests a lavender wrap to keep warm!

Lavender Desserts

Photo: Bella DC

No wedding reception is complete without a dessert table piled high with decadent sweets and petite, sugary bites.

And that’s one more reason that we’re in love with lavender this year: this pretty pastel hue lends itself perfectly to desserts

Think cupcakes decorated with lavender frosting. Picture a lavender wedding cake decorated with purple watercolors or fresh greenery. You can even add lavender labels or little banners to identify all of the various cookies, cakes, and pastries on your sweet table! 

Related: 5 Wedding Cake Styles to Consider for Your Wedding

Lavender Wedding Palettes

If you’re planning on wearing a white wedding dress, there are endless color combinations you can choose for your wedding color scheme, including several chic and modern palettes that incorporate lavender.

Here are a few palettes that we’re loving right now:

Lavender, Dusty Blue, and Indigo

Photo: Bella Indy / Nathaniel Edmunds

Shades of purple, dusty blue, and dark blue pair effortlessly and work all year round.

A lavender and blue wedding palette works just as well for a summer or spring wedding as it does for an outdoor wedding in the fall.

See all of the blue bridesmaid dresses we have in stock!

Lavender and Grey

Photo: Bella Philly / Monique Lhuillier Bride

Lavender and grey is one of those color combinations that can look incredibly elegant or laid back with a boho-chic vibe.

Go pale for total romance. Go dark to create a moodier vibe. Or, pair lavender with shades of plum for gorgeous contrast. The choice is yours!

Shop our grey bridesmaid dresses!

Lavender and Sage Green

Photo: Leaslie Vigil

Lavender provides a stunning contrast to all shades of green, but we especially love it with shades of sage and deeper greens, such as olive and forest. 

This color combo is a stunning choice for an outdoor, rustic wedding. And it’s even better if the natural landscape of your venue offers up even more greenery of its own!

There are so many different shades of purple and green to choose from that this color palette lets you get extra-creative. 

Want to soften things up? Add blush pink accents.

Want to make it a bit more dramatic? Add shades of mauve, merlot, and wine.

Check out our collection of green bridesmaid dresses!

Conclusion

Lavender wedding color palettes are trending, and they work with every wedding style and every wedding theme. Whether you’re opting for elegance or casual, rustic charm, pastel purple hues are a lovely choice. 

From wedding decorations to bouquets to bridesmaid dresses, there are endless ways to incorporate lavender into your celebration. And now that you know a few of them, you’re one step closer to planning the wedding day of your dreams!

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