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Rustic, boho, country chic...

No matter what term you prefer, there's one thing we know for sure:

The barn wedding is one trend that’s not going away! And we totally get it. 

Some brides and grooms dream of sipping champagne in a ballroom under a crystal chandelier. But there are plenty who’d rather sip cocktails from mason jars under twinkly lights!  

So, what should you wear to a barn wedding? How do you look amazing without overdressing or being too casual? 

We’ve got the answers! 

We’re revealing what to wear to a barn wedding as a guest and factors to consider when choosing an outfit. You’ll also see some wedding guest dress inspo to help you find the perfect look for your next barn wedding celebration. 

How to Choose the Right Barn Wedding Attire

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Not all barn weddings are the same. When choosing an outfit, always consider the dress code on the invitation and the wedding theme — if there is one. 

Some couples turn a barn wedding venue into a posh, elegant space. Others go for a more boho vibe with a rustic-chic feel. And some go full-on country western. 

The point is this: 

Just because it’s taking place in a barn doesn’t mean it’s a casual affair. Don’t assume it’s okay to wear a sundress and cowboy boots just because there’s a chicken coop or a horse stable at the wedding venue. Oftentimes, country weddings are as dressy and as formal as can be! 

The key rule in choosing a wedding guest outfit is to follow the dress code on the wedding invitation. If you’re going as someone’s plus one, ask your date what the invitation says. 

Choose the Right Length

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Traditionally, white tie, black tie, black tie optional, and formal weddings call for full-length gowns. Knee-length looks and midi dresses are more appropriate for cocktail, semi-formal, and casual events. 

However, you can subtly break these fashion rules while still looking gorgeous and abiding by the dress code. 

For example, if you’re heading to a casual barn wedding, the Sachin & Babi Kayla Gown (above) may be the perfect choice! In soft floral print chiffon, it’s an easy, breezy, and elegant option that you can dress down just by wearing it with flat sandals.  

On the other hand, if it’s a black tie optional barn wedding, the Dessy Group’s Lovely LB001 slip dress (above) is a great option. This midi dress features a timeless slip silhouette with a cowl neckline. The smooth charmeuse fabric also makes it easy to dress up with heels and sparkling jewelry. 

Choose the Right Textures and Prints 

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If the couple is having an outdoor wedding reception in a barn, there’s a good chance they’re not going for total glitz and glamour. 

It’s important not to be underdressed for a wedding, but you also don’t want to be overdressed.

Dresses with lots of beading and bling may be appropriate for a ballroom wedding at a luxury estate or five-star hotel. However, barn weddings usually have a more rustic feel. 

Forget the gowns embellished with sequins and glitzy details. Instead, embrace flowy silhouettes in soft fabrics like chiffon or casual fabrics like cotton or linen.

Barn weddings are also ideal for pretty prints and romantic details like ruffles, flutter sleeves, or puffed sleeves. Little details like these can make even the most casual dress look barn wedding-appropriate! 

Here are some gorgeous options that are rich with texture and soft, romantic details: 

Jenny Yoo Lunetta Dress

Flutter sleeves, a cummerbund waist, and a jacquard texture make this dress a feminine, flattering option for a rustic barn wedding. The Jenny Yoo Lunetta midi dress features a deep V-neckline, an open back, and a flowing skirt with an asymmetrical hem. 

Jenny Yoo Jasmine Dress

The Jenny Yoo Jasmine Dress offers a soft, romantic look with a one-shoulder bodice and one short puffed sleeve. This crinkle chiffon midi dress, detailed with an asymmetrical hem and pretty all-over print, works for various celebrations.  

Sachin & Babi Carina Gown

The Sachin & Babi Carina Dress is barn wedding perfection in a flared A-line silhouette with puffed sleeves and an all-over floral print. In soft linen fabric with a V-neckline, you can easily dress it up with heels or dress it down with casual sandals.  

Discover more stunning options in our wedding guest dresses catalog!

The Right Footwear Is Key

There’s nothing fun about getting your stilettos stuck in the mud or grass. Before you choose footwear for the big day, look up the venue to see how it’s laid out. 

Does it look like you’ll have to walk on grassy or unpaved areas? Consider leaving your 6-inch stilettos at home and opting for wedges or block heels. 

What Should Guys Wear to a Barn Wedding?

For guys, wearing a tuxedo is unnecessary unless the wedding is a white or black tie affair. At most barn weddings, semi-formal or dressy casual clothing is the best choice. 

When choosing a suit for a semi-formal event, stick with light colors like tan and pale grey. Black and dark grey suits may look too formal for the occasion.  

If the wedding is more laidback, leave the suit at home and opt for a blazer with chinos or dress pants and a button-down shirt. A coordinating vest and pant combo is another great option, especially if the weather is warmer.

And don’t be afraid to add some eye-catching accessories! Barn weddings are perfect for wearing colorful bow ties, suspenders, or fun socks.

Find the perfect barn wedding look in our Suit Shop, featuring suit jackets, cufflinks, tuxedos, suspenders, and more!

It All Boils Down to This: 

Whether it's a barn venue and a boot-scootin' country-western wedding or an upscale black tie event, always keep the dress code in mind. Just because the venue has a rustic, casual vibe doesn’t mean the wedding is casual. 

So, follow the dress code guidelines. Choose an appropriate wedding outfit that makes you feel comfortable, and arrive on time and ready to celebrate and dance the night away! 

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