7 Bachelorette Itinerary Ideas (From Wild to Chill)

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You’re the esteemed MOH in your bestie’s upcoming wedding. So you already know that one of your key maid or matron of honor duties is to throw your girl the best bachelorette party ever.

And with the tips and tricks we’re about to give you, it’ll be super easy!

The key to an amazing bachelorette party is that it goes according to plan, whatever that plan may be. 

One way to make that happen is to create an itinerary so everyone on the guest list knows the plan. That includes where to meet, what to bring, and what bachelorette party activities or events to prepare for.

Whether the bride-to-be wants a crazy weekend in Vegas, a laid-back Sunday spa day, or something in between, check out these seven bachelorette party itineraries — from wild to chill!

How to Create the Perfect Bachelorette Party Itinerary


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Before sharing bachelorette party invitations on social media, you must plan the event. And that starts with talking to the bride to figure out what she wants to do.

Does she want one wild night out, hopping on and off a party bus to hit all the hottest bars and clubs in town?

Maybe she’d rather have a wild night in, playing drinking games with her bridal party.

Some brides prefer the opposite, such as a relaxing dinner at a new restaurant. Or a Saturday brunch followed by mani-pedis. Or even an overnight wellness retreat with a yoga session and a sound bath.

Once you know what the bride’s ideal bach party looks like, ask the bridesmaids how much they can chip in so you can figure out the budget. Then, plan suitable activities and events that align with that budget and the bride’s wishes.

Create an itinerary to share after planning the events, setting the locations, and booking the reservations.

What Should a Bachelorette Party Itinerary Include? 


Honestly, it doesn’t matter how many or how few events you’re packing into the bachelorette night or weekend. 

Every itinerary should include some key information:

• Where and when to meet
• The time and location of each event
• The method of transportation to and from events

    You should also tell guests the dress code, the bachelorette party theme (if there is one), and if it’ll be wild or chill!

    If you’re planning an overnight trip or a weekend getaway, including a packing list is a good idea. That’s especially true if specific items — such as swimsuits, snow boots, or workout gear — are necessary.

    Read: How to Plan Your Wedding Day Timeline

    Itinerary #1: A Wild Night Out


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    There’s only one drawback to throwing a one-night party out on the town:

    Your party time will be limited.

    The less time you have to celebrate with the bride-to-be, the more important it is to be specific about timing. That’s especially true if you have reservations at a trendy bar or club.

    Here’s a sample itinerary template for a wild night out:

    7:00 PM: Party bus departs [location]
    8:00 PM: Dinner reservations at [name and location of restaurant]
    10:00 PM: Cocktails at [name and location of bar]
    11:00 PM: Cocktails at [name and location of bar]
    12:00 PM: Dancing at [name and location of club]
    2:00 AM: Party bus departs

      Dress code: Festive attire

      Itinerary #2: A Chill Night Out


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      For some brides, the best bachelorette bash revolves around sharing a nice dinner with friends and family. Afterward, they want nothing more than to return home to have cocktails or play party games. 

      Here’s how your chill night out schedule might look:

      7:00 PM: Meet at MOH’s house [location]
      8:00 PM: Ubers depart from MOH’s house
      9:00 PM: Dinner reservations at [name and location of restaurant]
      11:00 PM: Uber back to MOH’s house for cocktails and party games!

        Dress code: Dressy casual

        Itinerary #3: A Chill Day Out


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        Planning a low-key daytime celebration? 

        Here’s a sample itinerary for a midday bachelorette bash!

        10:00 AM: Brunch reservations at [name and location of restaurant]
        12:00 PM: Massages, manicures, and pedicures at [name and location of spa]

          Dress code: Casual

          Even with as few as two events scheduled, having an itinerary helps keep everyone on track. It’s also useful for guests who might have to work, travel a distance, or require childcare and may not be able to attend all portions of the party.

          Itinerary #4: A Wild Night In


          Oh, a wild night in can be so much fun! It’s also a perfect option for the bride who doesn’t want to wear a veil or sash around town… but is happy to drink from naughty straws from the comfort of home!

          7:00 PM: The festivities start at the maid of honor’s house! [location]
          8:00 PM: Cocktails, snacks, and ‘90s dance party
          10:00 PM: Magic Mike arrives (Shhh, it’s a surprise!)
          11:00 PM: Bachelorette party games and late-night snacks

            Dress code: Casual, retro ‘90s theme

            Need some bachelorette party ideas for games? There are all sorts of printable games on Etsy. You’ll also find many fun, customizable bachelorette party favors you can give out as gifts or use to decorate the house! 

            Itinerary #5: A Chill Night In


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            A chill night in may be just the vibe the bride is looking for. Consider turning it into a themed bachelorette party to make it more special.

            For example, host a costume party where everyone dresses up as their favorite pop star. Or, consider a good old-fashioned slumber party where everyone is encouraged to wear their favorite comfy pajamas.

            Here’s what your itinerary for a chill night in might look like:

            7:00 PM: Meet at MOH’s house [location]
            8:00 PM: Dinner will be ordered in from [name of restaurant]
            9:00 PM: After-dinner cocktails, mocktails, and party games

              Dress code: Pajamas or loungewear

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              Itinerary #6: A Wild Weekend Bachelorette Party


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              If it’s a crazy, wild weekend trip the bride wants, Las Vegas isn’t your only option. To reduce travel time and distance, consider hosting the bachelorette party weekend in NYC or Miami if you’re on the East Coast. If you’re down south, Nashville, New Orleans, and Charleston are great options.

              Also, are you creating a bachelorette weekend itinerary filled with events where cocktails will be flowing? If so, during the bachelorette party planning process, don’t forget to include downtime, free time, and healthier activities in the plan so guests can have options.

              Friday:


              3:00 PM: Check in at hotel or Airbnb [location]
              6:00 PM: Cocktails at hotel bar [location]
              8:00 PM: Dinner reservations at [name of restaurant]
              10:00 PM: After-dinner drinks and games back at MOH’s hotel room [room #]

                Dinner dress code: Smart casual

                Saturday:


                8:00 AM: optional Yoga session [location]
                10:00 AM: Breakfast reservations at [name of restaurant]
                12:00 PM: Option 1: Meet at [location] for shopping at [location]
                                     Option 2:
                Cabanas reserved at hotel pool
                3:00 PM: Free time
                5:00 PM: Pre-dinner cocktails at [name of bar]
                7:00 PM: Dinner reservations at [name of restaurant]
                10:00 PM: Girls night out at [name of club or lounge]

                  Daytime dress code: Casual

                  Evening dress code: Club attire

                  Sunday:


                  10:00 AM: Brunch reservations at [name of restaurant]
                  12:00 PM: Hotel check-out

                    Dress code: Casual 

                    Itinerary #7: A Chill Overnight Bachelorette Party


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                    Maybe it’s an apres-ski moment in Vail. Perhaps it’s sipping wine in Napa Valley. It could also be relaxing at the pool in Palm Springs or a wellness retreat in Sedona. 

                    Many bachelorette party destinations don’t involve drinking, partying, nightlife, or getting wild.

                    Here’s a sample itinerary for a super chill overnight bachelorette party:

                    Saturday:


                    10:00 AM: Sprinter van departs from [location]
                    12:00 PM: Wine tasting and lunch reservations at [name of vineyard]
                    3:00 PM: Check in at hotel or Airbnb [location]
                    4:00 PM: Meditation session at [location]
                    7:00 PM: Dinner reservations at [name of restaurant]

                      Lunch dress code: Casual, garden party theme

                      Dinner dress code: Dressy casual

                      Sunday:


                      8:00 AM: Yoga session at [location]
                      9:00 AM: Massage appointments at [location]
                      11:00 AM: Hotel check-out
                      12:00 AM: Brunch reservations at [name of restaurant]
                      2:00 PM: Sprinter van departs to return home

                        Brunch dress code: Casual


                         

                        Now you know how to plan a bachelorette party itinerary!

                        Whether you take the bride out for a relaxing day at the local spa or pack your bags for a crazy weekend of non-stop partying:

                        Make your reservations, schedule your activities, and make a detailed itinerary to keep the day as stress-free as possible.

                        An itinerary will help keep everyone on track so you can throw a bachelorette party the bride will never forget!

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